I know me and him met once before because of my friend but I never saw him again for a while. For a while, I was afraid of seeing him again. Cause I really WAS attracted to him. But I had Major Abuser as a boyfriend at the time. I felt sick. So, I smiled said bye to my friend and everybody, waved to him bye. Major Abuser broke up with me that day.
THAN A MONTH (Or something like that) LATER, I saw my friend again so I smiled gave her a hug. And we were reintroduced, this time I started a conversation. Oh my... my conversation with him wasn't the best first impression. I was talking about Choppers, but since I didn't know what the term was I called them..... Leisure bikes. Slushie corrected me, but I now know the term. After a week, he said for me to give him a call so we could have lunch some time.
Little did I know, he canceled his business trip to New York for me.. I sent him a text, but he didn't have text. So the next week I met up with him again, and it made me happy. We kept meeting at the very bench that we started talking at.
Now, I will tell you he is no rebound. Why? cause I had my chance to mourn for that month that I didn't seem him again. When I was reintroduced, I definitely thought he was attractive. So I don't believe him to be any rebound. You may think a month is too short a time, but it really wasn't because to me I got over it the same day and I had fun for a while.
I'm glad that me and him are dating. Although our first unofficial date, was a massacre. I had invited my best friend, not the friend that I met him through. I just made a mess of it, because well my friend wanted to come along and I couldn't say no cause me and her were hanging out like every day.
So, I was obligated...
Oh but when we were alone... wow, he really grabbed my attention. Slushie is a really good kisser and show me just how much of a wild animal he had. To tell the truth, I like that so much in Slushie.
We have been dating, we decided after not knowing the actual date when we were official to start at the unofficial date day, So we have been dating for 5 months, 1 week and 6 days.
and WOW :) I have to say he is the greatest, and the best for me.
I'm happy knowing that when he feels bad, I can make him feel better. I love that what I do effects him. I love knowing that I love him and he loves me back.
Oh he will never stop bringing up the fact he said, 'I love you' or 'I'm falling for you' first. Ladies, we all know who felt it first, right? ;) Anyways, it wasn't difficult to lower my barrier though. I know I felt it first but I didn't have the courage to say it first. Why?
Well, he had told me about his ex. But when he said it, he as told me that she was the only girlfriend that he could ever love. So I'm really glad I got him over her. I mean, seriously he is a great guy. She missed out.
Oh, and Slushie is very overprotective. Mainly, I think it's because of her cheating on him. But I don't mind. I never had a guy that wanted to be over protective of me. I feel safer when I'm with him then when I am in my own home with family inside the house.
Maybe I'll add pictures of me and him later.
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